1: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Courage
Welcome to Season 2 of the Digital Rabbi podcast. In this episode, we talk about the shift in focus towards entrepreneurship and vision as well as sharing insights some of the significant personal breakthroughs that have taken place in the last 12 months.
Everything you want is on the other side of courage. So let's create a community of people who overcome fear, break the limits of our thinking and pursue God-given calling.
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29: Marvin Nooitgedacht on the Evolution of Work & How To Create Healthy Culture
Marvin runs a highly successful marketing studio called Pixelflakes in the heart of London. In this conversation we talk about how the world of work is changing, creating a place where creatives want to be and navigating the challenges of being an entrepreneur.
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28: Marcia Muller on Being Spiritually Sensitive & Moving in the Prophetic
Marcia Muller has lived a fascinating life with a dramatic conversion story full of the supernatural. Now she works as part of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association in stirring up evangelism across the globe. We talk about being spiritually sensitive, how God got her attention and how to move in the prophetic gifting.
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27: Daniël van Deutekom on Supernatural Healing, Social Media & Modern Day Evangelism
Daniël van Deutekom is the founder of God First, an organisation with a vision to reach young people in the Netherlands with the gospel. This conversation goes deep with stories of God moving in healing and miracles contrasting with the topic of suffering and loss.
PS. We spontaneously prayed for people during the podcast conversation. If you experienced God healing you in any way then please do reach out to share your story.
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How to create discipline
As I write this, I am celebrating a personal best when it comes to fitness. At the start of 2023, I set myself a goal to workout every single day.
If fitness is not your jam, don’t worry because this post isn’t really about fitness at all. It’s about how to create discipline.
I set a few caveats to make this achievable:
Weekdays only. Five days across Monday – Friday seems like plenty.
Holidays don’t count. I knew I wouldn’t necessarily have access to a gym or be on a schedule that would let me keep my habit going.
Intensity didn’t matter. I knew there would be some days that I didn’t really want to work out but if I could just get myself to the gym then I’d end up doing something which was better than nothing.
And today I hit a 150 day streak.
I’m not finished either.
What’s wild is that when I went on holiday for two weeks recently, I was actually genuinely quite sad not to be able to go to the gym and workout.
Please be assured that this is not a sentiment I have ever felt before.
Change your focus
Many of us have goals in all sorts of areas of our lives. In fitness, we might focus on muscle mass, weight loss, flexibility, strength etc. In business it’s nearly always profitability. In church we tend to gravitate to numbers such as Sunday attendance or small groups.
But I’ve learnt over the last 150 days that whilst such goals are not inherently bad, they’re nearly always very unhelpful to focus on.
I know that because my number one goal each day has simply been to keep the streak going. And without a lot of willpower, I have somehow quasi-miraculously turned into someone who goes to the gym.
It’s important to note that I would still class myself as a novice in this area. I’m learning plenty about all of the nuances around different exercises, rest, nutrition, intensity etc. But I would be lying if I said I haven’t felt the benefits.
💪Increased strength
💊No more back pain
☀️Greater confidence
🔋More energy
Doing a few perfectly executed workouts will always lead to lesser results than 150 days of consistency. In fact my real goal is much less about days and much more about years and decades. That’s where the real results and benefits are.
Why you fail
Whenever you start to focus on the wrong thing, we naturally lean into intensity and what we do becomes unsustainable. Here are some examples.
Money. When we only think about profit we start to see our customers as a means to an end. Ironically they will sense it too and it drives down business and hurts your brand.
Growth. When the goal of the church is to get people into a room, this quickly leads to a cheapening of ministry and watering down of the thing that makes the church so powerful.
Do we want our businesses to make more money? Do we want our churches to be full of people? Well yes of course. But these are the wrong things to focus on.
Try this simple 3-part framework instead.
1. Choose your direction
Yes we do need a vision and we will need to check in on it from time to time but NOT every day. Take time to reflect and envision the future and then forget about it. I’ll explain why in the next point.
2. Plot your route
Now that you have clarity about where you want to go, break down the steps of how to get there. The truth is that it’s easier to dream about the future than it is to do the work. That’s why so many of us are great at starting things but rarely follow through.
3. Make failure unacceptable
Now that you know where you want to be and how to get there, you want to make sure that you don’t give up. This is near-impossible on your own. You need someone to hold you accountable to the plan that you’ve made so that you’ll actually see it through. Because it’s the work in the day to day that gives you the results you desire.
We can also think of these three parts as vision, strategy & accountability.
I use this simple framework with my coaching clients and it works. If you think about every great project or creative idea you attempted that didn’t pan out, then you’ll be able to see why in contrast with the framework above.
So now it’s time for some questions.
How many dreams have fallen by the roadside because you simply did not follow through with the process?
And how happy would you be if you could turn just one of your dreams into a reality in the next 12 months?
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